Southeast Asia forum

The people back home worrying about it have likely never travelled to SEA - am I right? So they are primarily speaking out of concern for you, and ignorance of travelling in SEA.

Look at how many people post on TF - and you rarely hear of any problems. Yes, there are the occasional pickpockets, bag grabs and other thefts (although I've never had problems....). But from a personal safety perspective, you will be fine - as long as you are sensible! ie don't go wandering the streets or tubing when drunk, take care if you really need to go to the full moon parties, don't flaunt your valuables, wear a helmet when on a motorbike, look both ways (twice!) when crossing the road.. the usual precautions that you would take at home anyhow. And read all the common-sense guidelines on this site (and others) - eg scams and buses to avoid in Bkk, etc).

If you want some inspiration, read this post: http://travelhappy.info/travel-tips/seven-reasons-to-go-travelling-solo/ It's an old-ish post, but it still gets hit with lots of good comments.