backpackgirl
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#1 Posted: 11/7/2008 - 23:36


Hi everyone.

My boyfriend and I are backpacking Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia between Dec. 27 ’08 and April 29 ’09. We are getting very excited and are trying to plan ahead … and pack light. I have looked over the “What to Pack” info on this site already, but am a little concerned about what type of clothing is appropriate for women. I hope you can help!

What type of swimming costume would be suggested? Would a bikini top with board shorts be ok?

Are tank tops and halter-top all right, or is it best to be more covered ie: short sleeve, ¾ length and long sleeve?

When entering temples (and in general), would a dress with thick straps be all right or would a skirt and collared, bottom down t-shirt be better?

For dresses, skirts and shorts, is it best to have them come to the knee or is mid-thigh acceptable?

Finally, how concerned should we be with taking warmer clothing? I understand it does get cool in Laos and we are planning to explore Sapa and surrounding area. Is a light hoodie enough or should we consider bring a heavier hoodie or zip up fleece? As for pants, are jeans a good idea or would a cotton blend be better?

Thank you so much in advance. I truly appreciate this site and all who take the time to help others.
Carly
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somtam2000
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#2 Posted: 12/7/2008 - 06:52


Hi Carly,

Glad you like the site!

What type of swimming costume would be suggested? Would a bikini top with board shorts be ok?

Yes that would be fine.

Are tank tops and halter-top all right, or is it best to be more covered ie: short sleeve, ¾ length and long sleeve?

Either is acceptable.

When entering temples (and in general), would a dress with thick straps be all right or would a skirt and collared, bottom down t-shirt be better?

Generally you're best to have your shoulders covered (eg a t-shirt, or button down shirt) is better than straps... That said there's no shortage of Thais in very skimpy cloths wandering through temples, so it's a bit of a personal choice regarding how conservative you want to be. We'd say your best erring on the conservative side.

For dresses, skirts and shorts, is it best to have them come to the knee or is mid-thigh acceptable?

Mid-thigh is fine.

Finally, how concerned should we be with taking warmer clothing? I understand it does get cool in Laos and we are planning to explore Sapa and surrounding area. Is a light hoodie enough or should we consider bring a heavier hoodie or zip up fleece? As for pants, are jeans a good idea or would a cotton blend be better?

Luang Prabang and northern Vietnam, especially Sapa, get very cool to downright cold in Dec/Jan. I'd lean towards a pair of jeans and a fleece, but bear in mind you'll only need them for that segment of your trip, so if you're only there for a few days, perhaps buy something cheap and warm there and leave it there when you're done.

More questions - ask away!

quokka
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#3 Posted: 13/7/2008 - 13:14


Somtam, I'm a bit surprised by your answer. While a minority of younger Thai women will dress like that, and a lesser number of middle-aged to older women, I've seen very very few of them dressed like that when visiting a temple. In fact the women that will dress like that anywhere are overwhelmingly tourists (including tourists from some other Asian countries).

We have overheard Thai people comment unfavorably about individuals showing too much skin, and of course there is the occasional print in the paper from those disturbed by it. In discussing the issue with some Thai we were told that a fair number of young people are less concerned with it, but for the over-35 set, it does make a difference.

I don't doubt what you have witnessed, but as you said, it is best to err on the conservative side.

Carly, I'd recommend light, loose clothing which does cover your shoulders, thighs, and most parts in-between. That applies to your boyfriend as well. You really can't go wrong that way.

Lother
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#4 Posted: 13/7/2008 - 13:49


Especially as the trip also covers Laos & Cambodia, I'd agree with the advice of erring on the conservative side. I've never really understood the need to wear particularly skimpy clothing when travelling, as loose and covering clothes are cooler in any case. Then again, I'm male and can always wear simple trousers and collared shirts when I travel anywhere, so maybe I just don't get it.

Going to a club in PP or Bangkok or staying at a tourist-oriented beach destination is one thing, but especially when travelling in the countryside, you'll definitely ensure a more positive and respectful response from the locals if you cover your shoulders and thighs.

sof3103
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#5 Posted: 19/7/2008 - 22:18


Having lived and worked in Thailand and travelled through Cambodia, I am also surprised by SomTam2000's answer.

I agree with quokka's and lother's recommendations for the both of you.

Have fun!